What Is It Actually Like? Understanding the Flow and Key Points of "Family Introductions" to Experience Connections Between Households.
2017.01.23 published
Introducing the Flow and Key Points of Family Introduction♡
Marriage is not just for the two lovers, but a connection between both families♡
By the time the wedding ceremony takes place, the couple's parents might already know a lot about each other's families, but there are likely many relatives like uncles, aunts, cousins, and grandparents who will be meeting the groom's side of the family for the first time.
That’s why the time spent on 'Family Introduction' before the ceremony is very important for establishing a solid relationship between the two families that will continue to grow deeply♡
In this article, we will introduce the flow and key points of 'Family Introduction' at the wedding!
First, there are *two formats for Family Introduction♡
The two formats for family introductions are mainly that the fathers of the bride and groom, representing both families, introduce each family member one by one.
① The groom's father introduces each guest from the groom's side (the introduced guest stands up, says a word, and bows)
② The bride's father introduces each guest from the bride's side (the introduced guest stands up, says a word, and bows), and so on♡
The other format for family introduction is for each family member to introduce themselves. This self-introduction style is recommended for family weddings or smaller weddings when there’s enough time before the ceremony♡
Now, let’s go over the key points to keep in mind regarding family introductions!
Key Point 1: Pay Attention to the Order and Titles!
The important points to note in family introductions are the order of introduction and the titles used.
Most brides probably already know that guests should be introduced in order of blood relation and age!
For example: bride's parents ➜ bride's siblings and their spouses ➜ paternal relatives ➜ maternal relatives, and so forth♡
Additionally, since it's a family introduction, titles aren't used even for those older than the father. Just saying "This is the groom's aunt, 〇〇" is sufficient!
Key Point 2: Don’t Forget to Confirm Names with Your Father!
In families with many relatives, it's common to meet people who you haven't seen in a long time.
While you can certainly refer to a paper while speaking, it's recommended to check names with your father beforehand to avoid any mistakes due to nervousness♡
It's an important stage for your father, so make sure to convey your appreciation too♡
Key Point 3: Add a Little Surprise!
Depending on the family's personality, the atmosphere could either be quiet or lively, but brides who want to leave everyone feeling warm and fuzzy during the family introduction might consider adding a little surprise♡
For instance, one bride surprised her grandmothers with gifts because it was close to Grandparents' Day. How wonderful to receive such a lovely gesture from a beloved grandchild, filled with happiness♡
The Time for Family Introduction Makes Me Excited♡
So, what do you think? Family introduction serves a crucial role in connecting the families♡ Also, it’s an opportunity for the fathers to shine, and it provides a comforting and relaxing time for the newlyweds to interact with their family and relatives as well*
Be sure to grasp the common sense and etiquette well, and enjoy a remarkable family introduction♩