A Special Feature on "Thank You Bites": How Newlyweds Can Share Wedding Cake with Guests ♡
2017.01.29 published
Do you know about 'Thanks Bite'?
Have you heard about Thanks Bite? Thanks Bite is a popular guest participation performance at wedding receptions and after-parties where the newlyweds feed a slice of wedding cake to someone they are grateful to, with an "Ahh" sound, as a gesture of thanks.♡
The classic first bite symbolizes the newlyweds promising to "make delicious meals" and "never let you starve for a lifetime."
On the other hand, Thanks Bite has the meaning of sharing happiness and saying "thank you for everything so far," as the newlyweds feed the wedding cake to parents, friends, and others who have supported them with an "Ahh."♡
It's exciting to involve guests who normally wouldn't step forward!
Usually, during the wedding reception, guests remain seated. There are few opportunities for them to come forward, aside from special moments like photo sessions during free time or when individuals are called for speeches or performances.
However, with Thanks Bite, guests can come forward to the same position as the newlyweds to participate in the performance, creating opportunities for photos, which is wonderful!♡
It expresses gratitude, creates photo opportunities, and allows others besides the newlyweds to enjoy the cute and delicious wedding cake—it's a win-win performance!♩
Summary of examples of Thanks Bite performed by brides
Weddings bring together everyone who has supported the couple. When considering whom to express gratitude to, many brides likely think, "I want to do Thanks Bite for everyone...!"
So, who have previous brides chosen for their Thanks Bite performances, and for what reasons? Let’s check out some examples from them!♡
The most popular choice for whom to perform Thanks Bite is 'each other's mothers.'*
Having both the bride's and groom's mothers come forward for a Thanks Bite, signifying "thank you for the delicious meals" from their children, creates a very heartwarming moment.♡
Of course, having the fathers come forward is also emotional.*
When performing Thanks Bite with the father, one bride put on a bib she used as a child instead of an apron to keep her father's suit clean!
Seeing a child now feeding their father with the bib that they wore when they were a newborn is heartwarming.◎
Example 3 of Thanks Bite by a bride
It's also wonderful to do Thanks Bite for friends who helped with wedding preparations or supportive seniors.*
It conveys the feeling of "thank you," and participating in the wedding performance creates lasting memories!◎
Example 4 of Thanks Bite by a bride
Inviting guests who are about to have their wedding soon and performing Thanks Bite for them is a lovely idea.
The traditional surprise performance for friends who are engaged or planning to marry often involves bouquet passing, but giving Thanks Bite as a surprise can be great too!♡
Example 5 of Thanks Bite by a bride
The newlyweds had guests who were their matchmakers come forward for a Thanks Bite.♡
It’s a Thanks Bite that doubles as a report: "Thanks to you, we met, fell in love, and got married." It’s an unforgettable moment of gratitude!*
If "there are so many people I want to thank!!" here’s another option for Thanks Bite.
Have everyone line up side by side and share the wedding cake among guests. This type of Thanks Bite is fun too!♩
Example 7 of Thanks Bite by a bride
One bride designed her wedding cake to match her gamer husband, opting for a 'Super Mario Brothers' theme.*
The nieces dressed as Mario and Luigi helped carry the cake, and they received a Thanks Bite in return! The coordinated theme of the cake and clothing is lovely!♩
Example 8 of Thanks Bite by a bride
Newlyweds expressing "thank you for being born" with a Thanks Bite to their newborn baby is also heartwarming.◎
It’s a special touch unique to family weddings!*
Example 10 of Thanks Bite by a bride
The newlyweds performed a Thanks Bite for guests using a big spoon. The big spoon is often prepared as a surprise for the groom.
Just as guests nervously watched the groom being fed with a giant spoon... if they suddenly find themselves chosen for a Thanks Bite with the big spoon, it’s a surprise on multiple levels!
Example 11 of Thanks Bite by a bride
Rather than performing Thanks Bite immediately after the cake cutting or first bite, one bride went around each table during dessert time, sharing Thanks Bite with several guests.◎
This approach allows more people to participate, and it makes guests who might feel shy about coming forward feel more at ease!♡
Convey gratitude& Make your wedding reception fun with Thanks Bite!
During the wedding reception, there are few moments for guests to step forward, making participatory performances quite rare.
However, for guests who take the time out of their day to attend, creating opportunities to connect and share a fun time together during the reception is ideal!♡
One recommended participatory performance is 'Thanks Bite.' It's a great way to spend a fun time with guests while conveying gratitude!♩
Please share a slice of happiness with the wedding cake, filled with the feelings of "Thank you for coming!"♡