Surprisingly Noticed! 5 Things the Bride Should Be Aware of During the Groom's Speech *
2020.04.28 published
During the Groom's Speech. The Bride is Also Getting Quite a Bit of Attention!
The welcome speech at the beginning of the reception and the groom's speech at the end of the reception.
Most of the time, when the groom gives his speech, the bride also stands up with him.
At this time, the bride doesn’t hold the microphone or speak, but she's definitely being watched.
Therefore, even if the guests are gazing at you, it's important to be conscious of being thought of as "a lovely bride."
So, what kind of behavior should the bride display while the groom is giving his speech??
If you let your guard down, you might slouch or exhibit some habits, so be mindful!♡
Point ① First, maintain good posture and look straight ahead!
One thing that mustn't happen during the groom's speech is for the bride to appear slouchy.
Even if you think you are standing up straight, it's common to feel wobbly or to slump due to nervousness and habits, causing your gaze to drop.
Since there will also be many moments when you take pictures with the groom while he's speaking, make sure to keep your gaze up and face forward to avoid looking gloomy.
Point ② Gaze lovingly at the groom ♡
Occasionally looking up at the groom and smiling while tilting your head can be seen as "a charming bride," which is great!
Make sure that you don't just give a glare with your eyes; it’s important to tilt your face and show that you’re listening.
Point ③ Laugh heartily when it’s funny ♡
The groom will likely be very nervous giving a speech in front of a large crowd.
The person who can ease that tension the most is the bride, who is closest to him!
If he tells a joke or something funny (even if it’s not really that funny), make sure to laugh loudly.
Even if you've heard the speech countless times at home!
Knowing that his own wife is laughing means the groom will feel reassured that he said something funny.
It would be a bit intimidating for the guests to see a bride who remains stone-faced while the groom cracks jokes...
Point ④ Link arms ♡
Linking arms to appear friendly is cute too.
Not only does it create lovely pictures, but being in contact with someone’s skin can psychologically relax or comfort you.
So linking arms also helps ease the tension for the groom!
Point ⑤ Provide support ♡
If the groom forgets what he was going to say or becomes emotional and stumbles over his words,
be sure to encourage him with remarks like "It's okay," "You’ve got this," or "I feel the same way."
This will give the groom relief, and more importantly, seeing such a supportive wife will reassure the guests!
Let’s show that you're a cute and attentive good wife ♡
The bride’s behavior while the groom is speaking is surprisingly observed.
After all, the groom's speech is one of the few highlights for him, often resulting in many photos. The bride will usually appear in these photos, so she should never let her guard down!
To avoid looking gloomy, keep your face visible to the guests and look forward.
Don’t forget to show that you share the same feelings with the groom, and to support your husband who's doing his best to speak; that would be perfect!
If the guests think of you as a lovely and supportive good wife, your husband will surely feel proud!