Many Brides Regret: Reasons Why the Wedding Certificate Signature Doesn’t Look as Beautiful as Usual and How to Fix It*

2017.03.28 published

I Can't Write Beautifully on the Marriage Certificate...!

One common regret after the wedding is that the bride couldn't write her name beautifully on the marriage certificate.

The marriage certificate is meant to record your eternal love and vows. Since you will want to keep it as a treasured memory, you want to write as beautifully as possible. However, many brides end up saying, "I couldn't write well."

So, why is it that the writing on the marriage certificate isn't beautiful? Let's explore the reasons and solutions! ♩

Reason 1: Writing While Standing

The first reason why many struggle to write beautifully on the marriage certificate is that they write while standing. Usually, we write while sitting, but writing while standing isn't something we do often.

Additionally, the altar where you write the marriage certificate is often quite low. It’s inherently difficult to write standing up, and sometimes you even have to crouch down, which can lead to "writing in a strange position and making it look messy." This is a common experience for brides. So how can you write well while standing?

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Solution: Practice Writing While Standing & Get to Practice in the Actual Location

To write your name beautifully on the marriage certificate while standing, the best way is to practice writing while standing first! Try practicing your name at a counter in your home. ♩

Also, some brides have asked if they could check the altar height during their wedding venue meetings! Knowing the actual height can help you visualize better. ♡

Reason 2: The Pens Are Hard to Write With

The next reason for poor writing is that the pens used for the marriage certificate can be difficult to write with. Depending on the wedding venue, you might find pens like the following being used:

✓ Ballpoint pens

✓ Fountain pens

✓ Sign pens

✓ Feathered ballpoint pens

✓ Brush pens

Using these types of pens can lead to comments like "I was surprised because I wasn't used to brush pens," or "The feather was fluffy, making it hard to see and write."

Solution: Check the Pens in Advance or Bring Your Own

If you're uncertain about the type of pen provided at the venue, it's a good idea to check with the venue about what they have. Once you’ve handled it, you'll feel more relaxed and can write beautifully on the day! ♡

Additionally, some brides choose to bring their own pens for the marriage certificate. Using a familiar pen that you love will ensure your writing is beautiful and create lasting memories. ◎

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Reason 3: Nervousness

The final reason I want to share is related to nervousness, which causes brides to struggle with writing beautifully.

Writing in front of a crowd isn’t something many of us do often. Plus, the atmosphere can be incredibly quiet, and there may be photographers capturing your writing from close up.

It's not uncommon for brides to say they trembled with nervousness while writing.

@nagisa_marry

Solution: Take Deep Breaths to Ease the Nerves

If you find your hands shaking from nerves, taking a deep breath to calm yourself is highly recommended. By breathing slowly and deeply, you can regain your composure and write beautifully.

Also, remember that even if you end up shaking and your writing isn't perfect, that moment will be part of your memories! ♡

Let's Practice to Write Beautifully on the Marriage Certificate ♩

I've shared the reasons why many struggle to write their names beautifully on the marriage certificate and how to solve these issues.

"My writing on the marriage certificate isn't pretty!" is a common regret among brides after the wedding. Be sure to research the height of the writing stand and the type of pen beforehand, and practice to ensure you can write beautifully! ♡

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