The Origin and Method of the "Beni-sashi Ceremony": A Final Preparation from Mother Every Bride Should Embrace♡

Do You Know About the "Kōsashi no Gi"?*

To all the future brides out there, do you know about the "Kōsashi no Gi"?

The "Kōsashi no Gi" is one of the final preparation rituals that the bride’s mother performs for her daughter.

When it comes to final preparations, the veil down is the first thing that comes to mind, but the "Kōsashi no Gi" is a popular ritual that can be performed in both traditional Japanese attire and dresses.

This time, I would like to introduce the "Kōsashi no Gi," which many brides say they are glad they did! ♡

What is the Origin and Method of the "Kōsashi no Gi"?

The "Kōsashi no Gi" is based on the belief that lip color symbolizes a wish for good health and protection from evil. By applying lipstick to the bride, the mother expresses her hopes for her daughter's happiness. ♡

In the "Kōsashi no Gi," after the hair and makeup and dressing are completed, the mother applies lipstick to the bride.

It’s a memorable moment for the whole family, with not just the bride and her mother, but even the father watching from the side sometimes becoming teary-eyed.

When is the "Kōsashi no Gi" Performed?

The "Kōsashi no Gi" is performed before the ceremony or during the outfit change.

If it’s before the ceremony, the mother can come to the bridal room to apply lipstick on the bride. Don't forget to take pictures of this moment! ♡

If performed during the outfit change, it’s also recommended to do the "Kōsashi no Gi" in front of all the guests after re-entering the venue.

Since most guests will be experiencing the "Kōsashi no Gi" for the first time, it would be nice to have the emcee explain its significance while performing the ritual.

Does the "Kōsashi no Gi" Have to Be Done by the Mother?

While the "Kōsashi no Gi" is a ritual where the mother applies lipstick to the bride, it is perfectly acceptable for other family members to perform the ritual as well.

There are no strict rules, so feel free to ask a grandmother, sister, or anyone else you’d like to do the final preparations for you. *

Incorporating the "Kōsashi no Gi"*

I have introduced the popular wedding ritual, the "Kōsashi no Gi."

This beautiful ritual can be incorporated not only by brides wearing traditional white kimono or colored kimonos but also by brides in wedding dresses.

Since it doesn't require any special preparation or cost, brides with upcoming ceremonies can easily include it as well!

During weddings and receptions, there aren’t many scenes where just the family performs something together. That’s why I hope all future brides planning their weddings will incorporate this special ritual! ♡