Perfect Positioning: Where Should a Bride Place Her Hands to Look Cute During the "Vow Kiss"?

2021.10.18 published

〔Exciting Moment〕The Vow Kiss♡

When it comes to the most exciting time during the ceremony, it’s the vow kiss♡

In Japan, kissing in front of people is quite rare. There aren’t many couples who kiss anytime and anywhere like foreigners do...! So it can be very nerve-wracking and embarrassing.

@mai_wedding0312

The reason for the vow kiss is said to "seal" the vows of marriage and the exchange of rings which promise eternal love.

You might feel really shy about kissing in front of family, friends, and work colleagues, but let’s do it to seal the vows properly◎

Where Should Your Hands Be During the Vow Kiss?

The thrilling moment of the vow kiss. Since it's the scene that will draw the most attention from guests, you want it to be perfect and beautiful...!

What's important when performing a beautiful vow kiss is "the position of the hands." Are you aware of where the bride's hands are during the vow kiss?

At first glance, you might think, "I won't be concerned about that..." but the position of your hands can greatly affect the impression guests get and how the photos turn out!

So, where exactly should you place your hands during the vow kiss? Here are three patterns for where to place your hands＊

@shigeayu_wedding

Hand Placement During the Vow Kiss① In Front of the Belly

The first method I'm introducing is to place your hands in front of your belly＊By bringing your hands naturally forward, your arm line will look more beautiful◎

Don’t you think that placing your hands in front of your belly gives a cute feeling of being kissed? The groom takes the lead, while the bride is receiving his feelings♡

If you're holding a bouquet, your hands will naturally come forward as well＊If you have a preference about whether to hold the bouquet or not, it’s best to confirm it in advance♩

@chihitomo.wedding

Hand Placement During the Vow Kiss② On His Shoulder

The next method is to place your hands on his shoulder＊By placing the bride's hands on the groom's shoulder and the groom's hands on the bride's waist, it creates a more loving atmosphere♡

Since both the bride and groom are placing their hands on each other's shoulders or waists, it creates an image of equality between the genders♩ It might come off as passionate...!

@sakiderella_ftw

If your hands are on your belly, the groom places his hand on the bride's shoulder, but if the bride places her hand on the groom’s shoulder, she will be wrapping her arm around his waist, so be cautious◎

To move your hands more naturally, it’s recommended to discuss it with your partner during the rehearsal for the ceremony＊

Hand Placement During the Vow Kiss③ Holding Hands

Finally, I'd like to introduce the method of kissing while holding hands♡ By holding each other’s hands tightly, it creates a cute impression＊

It gives off a friendly vibe, and it can also convey the message of “living together, hand in hand”◎

This is recommended not only for kissing on the lips but also for when kissing on the forehead like this. If you are going to hold hands, it’s good to consult with your partner in advance♩

（Peko-chan and Ryu-chel also used this style♡）

Be Conscious of Your Hands and Make Your Vow Kiss Wonderful♡

I have introduced different places to put your hands during the vow kiss＊

You might feel so nervous during the vow kiss that your mind goes blank, but if you don't consciously pay attention to your hands, you could unintentionally let your arms hang down by your sides, which might look sloppy...!

Be mindful of the position of your hands for a perfect vow kiss♡

@kana.u_u.7