"Essential Tips for Brides: 5 Ways to Boost Your Groom's Excitement for the Wedding!"

I Feel Like There's a "Temperature Gap" with Him Regarding the Wedding...!

The ceremony to vow eternal love as a couple, "the wedding." Many brides have been dreaming of a bright wedding day surrounded by their loved ones, wearing a pure white wedding dress... ♡

But have you ever felt a "temperature gap" with him regarding the wedding? While the bride is looking forward to it, the groom might feel negative about it, saying things like "the preparations are tough," "it costs money," or "it's embarrassing to stand in front of people," which is not uncommon for couples.

However, if you are going to have a wedding, he is also the main character. It's a bride's heart to want him to enjoy it too! But raising his motivation can be quite difficult...

For those brides, this time I will introduce "ways to raise his feelings before the wedding" ♡

Method 1 to Elevate His Feelings Before the Wedding: Hear Stories from Experienced People (Preferably Male Friends)

The most effective thing is to listen to stories from those with experience! It’s common to hear that a groom was initially negative about the wedding, but the wedding day was really enjoyable, and he wished he had done more preparations or paid more attention to details.

If you have mutual male friends, how about having them share their wedding stories?

Consider asking a mutual male friend to talk about their wedding experience, and if possible, let him know that you want him to share it with your fiancé◎

By hearing stories from people close to him, he might start to think, "Weddings are fun!" The experiences of senior grooms can provide valuable insights, making it easier to ask specific questions♩

If you don’t have any married male friends, it’s also recommended to talk to both fathers.

Hearing about their wedding experiences or their perspectives might help him understand that "marriage is wonderful" naturally♡

Method 2 to Elevate His Feelings Before the Wedding: Watch Wedding Movies

The next way to elevate his feelings is to watch wedding-related movies◎

Wedding movies create a warm and fuzzy feeling and allow one to relate to their current situation♡

Recommended films include Mamma Mia, About Time, Love Actually, among others＊ Knowing various forms of love and weddings through these films can inspire you to think about what kind of wedding would be unique to you both♩

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Method 3 to Elevate His Feelings Before the Wedding: Set a Schedule

Sometimes grooms feel like they don't know what to do, leading them to leave it all up to their partner.

While brides actively gather information, many grooms tend to be passive. They are not uninterested, but might feel lost about where to start and when to do things.

In such cases, it's recommended to specifically write on a calendar, "Decide on the wedding venue by this month," "Send out invitations on this date," etc., and share it with him◎

Sharing a checklist or writing it down in a notebook can also help clarify tasks＊

Method 4 to Elevate His Feelings Before the Wedding: Convey that It’s Natural to Spend Money

Some grooms may think negatively about the wedding because they believe it's a waste of money to spend several millions.

However, once the decision to hold the wedding is made, you should have his understanding. It can be discouraging if later he says, "It's going to cost a lot..."

During such times, it's advisable to show a breakdown of the wedding budget. If he suddenly hears a figure like “five million yen!” without context, it can feel daunting.

However, if you clearly explain the details, he is likely to understand. It's natural to spend money to make guests who take the time and effort to come happy, and since you’re spending money, it’s essential to enjoy it and not waste it!

Additionally, if you can think of ways to save together, he might become more positive about the wedding, and it gives both of you a chance to discuss things together♩

Method 5 to Elevate His Feelings Before the Wedding: Express Thanks

Finally, a way to elevate his feelings is simply to express gratitude! Be sure to thank him for everything he does, even if it feels exaggerated♡

Since the wedding is a joint event, you might think it's natural for him to help, but remembering to show appreciation is vital for a smooth relationship◎

By saying things like, "Thank you for doing this for the wedding! I’m so excited!" he'll naturally become more positive and look forward to it♡

Raise His Motivation and Create a Wonderful Wedding ♡

I introduced five methods to enhance his motivation before the wedding＊

For a happy wedding, his cooperation is essential. Even if he initially feels hesitant about the wedding, sharing the positivity of the occasion will likely lead him to prepare with a positive mindset♡

It’s a wedding where important people gather to vow lifelong happiness with the person they love. There’s nothing more joyous than this＊ So, please raise his motivation and create a wonderful wedding together♩