The Allure and Important Points of the Recently Popular "Gift Delivery Service" for Distant Guests ♡

What is "Hikidemono Delivery"?

When it comes to wedding gifts, it was common to have large paper bags placed on the chairs at the banquet venue, which guests would take home individually.

However, recently there has been an increase in brides who choose to send wedding gifts directly to their guests' homes through "Hikidemono Delivery."

In this article, we will introduce the appeal of Hikidemono Delivery and things to keep in mind when choosing this option. ♡

How to Order Hikidemono Delivery? What is the Timing for Sending?

Hikidemono Delivery is a method of sending wedding gifts by mail after the wedding day, rather than delivering them in person at the ceremony.

Brides can select their favorite items from a range of gifts offered by specialized delivery services.

Although it is said to be sent later, it is customary for the gifts to be arranged to arrive at the guests' homes on the wedding day or the next day. ♩

In other words, the main difference from the usual wedding gifts is whether they are handed out at the wedding or sent by mail. ♡

Next, let's take a look at why Hikidemono Delivery is becoming popular and its charms.

Appeal of Hikidemono Delivery ① It Doesn't Burden the Guests

The primary reason why many brides choose Hikidemono Delivery is consideration for their guests. ♡

The bags containing wedding gifts and sweets can be quite heavy, making it a struggle for guests traveling from far away, elderly guests, and female guests wearing high heels to carry them home.

Particularly with heavier items like dishes and beverages, this can lead to painful hands and discomfort.

With Hikidemono Delivery, guests can leave the wedding feeling light and without the burden of carrying heavy items. ♡

Additionally, it helps prevent problems with guests accidentally taking the wrong gift bags at the after-party venue.

Appeal of Hikidemono Delivery ② Cost-Effective

The second appeal of Hikidemono Delivery is that it tends to be relatively more affordable compared to traditional wedding gifts. ♩

When preparing gifts through the venue, products and paper bags can sometimes be a bit pricey, and there may be additional fees for bringing in items.

With Hikidemono Delivery, brides can choose both the delivery service and products themselves, and of course, there are no additional fees for bringing items in. Therefore, it often ends up being more budget-friendly than the usual wedding gifts. ♡

Appeal of Hikidemono Delivery ③ Customization

At weddings, it is common practice to "customize" wedding gifts based on the guests' status and relationships.

When preparing different items for distinguished guests, relatives, and friends, it is courteous to ensure that the differences are not immediately apparent.

Even if the amounts of monetary gifts differ, it can feel unpleasant for a guest to think, "Did they give me the lower-tier gift?"

If you prepare the same type of bag to make differences less noticeable, friends and acquaintances who receive fewer items compared to the distinguished guests or relatives may end up with a bag that appears rather empty.

By using Hikidemono Delivery, it makes it easy to customize gifts since guests won’t see each other's items. ♡

We have introduced the appeals of Hikidemono Delivery.

Next, let's discuss points to be aware of on the day of the wedding if you choose Hikidemono Delivery. ♩

Things to Note When Choosing Hikidemono Delivery ① Prepare a Hikidemono Delivery Guide Card

Although the trend of Hikidemono Delivery is increasing, most guests may not have experienced it before.

So, without any guidance, they may be surprised thinking, "Could it be that there are no gifts at all!?"

Therefore, if you choose Hikidemono Delivery, don’t forget to place a "Hikidemono Delivery Guide Card" on the guest tables!

The "Hikidemono Delivery Guide Card" should communicate that gifts will be sent and when they can expect to arrive. ♡

Some delivery service providers may prepare these cards, but many brides also enjoy DIYing original designs to match other paper items. ♡

Additionally, having the emcee mention it to the guests will help prevent misunderstandings about "no gifts being present." ♡

Things to Note When Choosing Hikidemono Delivery ② Provide Mini Paper Bags or Totes

When selecting Hikidemono Delivery, a small-sized paper bag or tote bag can be a delightful addition for guests.

At weddings, guests often take home various items besides gifts, including paper items and small gifts.

Male guests typically come empty-handed, while female guests often arrive with small party bags, so without a gift bag, they would need to carry those items directly in their hands.

Therefore, having small paper bags or tote bags for items like small gifts will be appreciated. ♡

You can fold them and tie them with ribbons to add a touch of elegance to the table decoration. ♩

I prepared A4-sized mini totes for my wedding, which were about 100 yen each. ♡

Hikidemono Delivery Likely to Increase in Popularity

We have introduced Hikidemono Delivery, which directly sends gifts to guests' homes. ♡

This new form of wedding gifts shows consideration for guests and is especially growing among brides with many distant guests. ♩

Brides currently choosing gifts should consider this option. ♡