"Keeping a Lasting Bond: Tips for Newlyweds to Ensure a Happy Marriage ♥"

2017.05.16 published

Finally Starting Our Newlywed Life ♩

From a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship to a husband and wife relationship, marriage.

The newly married couple is called "newlyweds" ♡ It’s possible that some of you are being teased by those around you saying, “Newlyweds are so lovey-dovey!”

However… there are many things that may not go smoothly precisely because you are newlyweds.

Especially the “newlywed life” that begins when you start living together with your partner is a continuous trial and error.*

You might struggle with unfamiliar household chores for two, find previously unnoticed quirks of your partner annoying, or feel confused by differences in habits… and more.

Anyone can overcome such hurdles and become a wonderful couple, but…

You might be wondering about the secrets to enjoying a fun and lovey-dovey newlywed life ♡

This time, we will introduce tips for a harmonious marriage that newlywed couples should pay attention to.＊

Tips for a Harmonious Newlywed Life #1: Express Gratitude ♡

The kindness of your partner that initially moved you may become something you take for granted while living together.

It’s important to express your gratitude on special occasions like anniversaries, but also remember to say “thank you” for everyday little things.*

When living together, there should be plenty of opportunities to say “thank you” ♡ It would be wonderful to appreciate each other with thoughts like, “I’m happy you did that,” rather than thinking, “We’re sharing the chores, so it’s expected.” ♩

Tips for a Harmonious Newlywed Life #2: Don’t Aim for Perfection from the Start.

Newly married couples have so much to do!

Paperwork for marriage, moving, quitting jobs, changing jobs, etc…

On top of that, you also need to prepare for the wedding and honeymoon, and of course keep up with household chores simultaneously.

In the midst of all this, aiming to be the “perfect wife” is incredibly challenging.

Because it’s the start of a new life, it’s easy to think, “I want to do everything perfectly!” but chasing after such high ideals can be very tough. It can lead to both of you feeling stressed and cause arguments.

First, it’s better to tackle tasks one by one within your means without overextending yourselves.◎

Tips for a Harmonious Newlywed Life #3: Recognize Differences in Lifestyle Habits Over Time＊

There are many things you’ll only understand once you start living together.

Small differences in lifestyle habits may lead you to think, “What!? I can’t believe that!”

For example, not washing the bath towel every time, not locking the toilet door, putting lemon on fried chicken… these tiny things can become bothersome.

However, since both of you have been living in different environments until now, it’s perfectly normal to clash. It becomes easier to think that you can gradually adjust these differences over your long life together.◎

Avoid getting stuck on rules and habits from your family homes, and instead, create a new family style together. ♡

Tips for a Harmonious Newlywed Life #4: Set Goals Together＊

In work or sports, having a common goal strengthens the team immensely. The same goes for couples ♡

When you set common goals together, not only does it create a sense of unity, but you will also have fun feeling the progress toward your goals every day.*

You could consider various goals like saving a certain amount by the wedding, losing a certain amount of weight, or saving for a down payment on your own home… and many more! ♡

Tips for a Harmonious Newlywed Life #5: Cherish Special Dates

Just as important as during your dating days, you want to cherish special dates ♡

Of course, birthdays and wedding anniversaries are important, but also the day you started dating or the day of your wedding… as a couple, there are many more significant days.*

You don’t need to always prepare lavish meals or gifts; simply reminiscing with thoughts like, “Remember when we did that…” can bring happiness ♡

Once a special date fades from memory, it can be difficult to bring it back, so let’s cherish every special date from the beginning of our marriage.

Tips for a Harmonious Newlywed Life #6: Small Gifts for No Reason ♡

Doesn’t it feel wonderful to receive a small gift on an ordinary day?

Because being the closest person often leads to a lack of thoughtfulness and consideration between partners, it’s nice to make it a habit to exchange small gifts ♡

It could be something as simple as spotting your partner’s favorite ice cream at the convenience store on your way home… little things like that are perfect.

They’ll surely help you remain a harmonious couple forever! ♡

May You Always Stay Close Together ♡

We’ve shared the secrets to enjoying a harmonious newlywed life.*

Starting a new life together can bring many surprises and challenges, but…

Since you loved each other enough to get married, you’ll surely be fine ♡

Let’s not forget to show consideration for each other and build a wonderful home together!＊

➡ To ensure a harmonious marriage, it’s effective to consult a financial planner about money matters to avoid conflicts. *