A Popular Tradition at Nagoya Weddings: The Charm of the Fun Guest-Participatory Performance 'Candy Toss'

Do You Know About the "Okashi Maki" Ceremony?

To all the brides across Japan, do you know about the "okashi maki" wedding ceremony?

As the name suggests, "okashi maki" is a performance where the newlyweds throw candy to their guests after the wedding ceremony or during the reception.

This is done from high places such as stairs, terraces, balconies, or out of second-floor windows, just like in the pic below.

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In Nagoya, it's a popular tradition!

It's not surprising if some brides have never heard of the "okashi maki" ceremony before.

This is mainly because it is a tradition that is primarily practiced in Nagoya.

Historically, when a bride was getting married, it seems there was a custom where neighbors would block her way to the new home. (Of course, this was simply an expression of affection!)

However, the bride must pass through. To resolve this, she would throw small snacks to the neighbors as a kind of bribe.

The actual scene of "okashi maki" looks like this.

You could say it’s a candy shower from the newlyweds to the guests, making for an impressive experience!

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This tradition has now become deeply rooted in Nagoya's wedding customs.

Now, let me introduce three charms of "okashi maki."

Charm 1: Unique and Fresh!

For those living outside the Tokai region, most probably do not know that there is an "okashi maki" performance at weddings.

Therefore, holding "okashi maki" at a wedding outside Nagoya will surely offer a unique and refreshing experience that will create lasting memories for the guests!

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Charm 2: A Ceremony for All Guests!

"Okashi maki" is a ceremony that involves participation from all guests.

It is enjoyable for people of all ages, from adults to children!

In fact, many brides choose "okashi maki" instead of the traditional bouquet toss or bouquet pull since it helps prevent any feelings of discomfort among the guests.

Charm 3: Parents Can Participate Too!

Lastly, one charm of "okashi maki" is that parents can help with throwing the candy!

Inviting parents to assist at this stage can also create a wonderful surprise!

For the guests, it might be better to have more people throwing candy, as it makes the candy spread out more!

Give "Okashi Maki" a Try!

I’ve introduced the charm of the Nagoya specialty wedding performance, "okashi maki."

One thing to keep in mind is to avoid choosing hard, heavy, or large candies. Don't forget to inform the guests, "We're sorry if it hits anyone!"

Although there are points to consider, "okashi maki" is a very fun and engaging performance for all the guests.

Why not discuss with your wedding venue staff or your partner and give it a try?

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