"Ultimate Satisfaction Without Entertainments: A Collection of Ideas for a Wedding Reception Without Performances"
2020.09.24 published
Is It Okay to Have a Wedding Reception Without Performances?*
Performances by guests are a staple at wedding receptions.
While it's a fun way for the guests of the bride and groom to entertain, recently, there has been an increase in wedding receptions without any performances.
There are various reasons such as having no guests to ask since it’s a family-centered wedding, wanting a more relaxed and calm atmosphere, or not wanting to burden the guests.
However, some brides-to-be may worry, "Will guests get bored without any performances?"
If you're planning a reception without any performances, what kind of flow should you have?
This time, we’ll introduce the entertaining elements that previous brides found valuable for performances-free weddings! ♡
Element 1 to Incorporate in a Performance-Free Reception: Friend Speeches
The first suggestion is friend speeches.*
It’s common to ask senior figures like bosses or mentors for welcome or toast speeches.
At a reception with plenty of time to spare and no performances, having speeches from friends of the bride and groom can better communicate the couple’s personalities to the guests. ◎
You can ask a group of friends instead of just one person for the speech! ♡
Hearing heartfelt words from important friends that they don’t usually express can create invaluable memories. *
We also recommend table speeches where you choose one person from each guest table.
Element 2 to Incorporate in a Performance-Free Reception: Cake-Related Events
The wedding cake is indispensable at a wedding reception. ♡ The cake cutting and the first bite are standard performances.
In a performance-free reception, let’s include even more events like "cake drip" and "thank you bite." ♩
There are surprisingly many events associated with the wedding cake! ♡
The moment the cake makes its appearance is a highlight at the reception. ◎
Let’s incorporate wonderful performances and enjoy them with the guests.
➡\How Many Do You Know?♡/9 Ideas for Cake-Related Events You Want to Do at Your Wedding Reception*
Element 3 to Incorporate in a Performance-Free Reception: Profile Movie
A profile movie introduces the couple's background and their journey together in a story format.
The typical length for a profile movie is about 5 to 6 minutes, but consider mixing in interviews with those who have cared for you and location footage to make it more engaging and worthwhile. *
Some video production companies can assist with structuring and location filming, so brides who want to put effort into their movies should look into this. ♡
Element 4 to Incorporate in a Performance-Free Reception: Impressive Change of Attire Entrance
The mid-reception entrance after changing attire can create a lot of excitement. Just the sight of the couple appearing in new outfits is enough to elevate spirits, but using props or planning surprises is highly recommended. ♡
An elaborate and high-entertainment outfit change entrance could even be considered a form of performance!
➡Check out articles for ideas on "Change of Attire Entrance" here*
Element 5 to Incorporate in a Performance-Free Reception: Table Rounds
One aspect that takes the most time in a performance-free reception is the table rounds, where the bride and groom visit each guest table.
This is a precious time where you can exchange words with each guest. ♡
There are many brides who choose to have no performances so they can spend more time on the table rounds.
There are many types of table rounds! ♡ The classic one is the photo round, but there are many unique ideas like making fruit liquor or candle relays.
Enjoy slow interactions with your guests. ♩
➡Engage with All Guests! 10 Types of Wedding Reception Performances Everyone Can Enjoy【Table Rounds】