The Most Emotional Moment of the Wedding Reception! Key Points to Remember When Reading the Bride's Letter

2018.01.31 published

Touching Scene of the Wedding Reception: "Bride's Letter"

The most touching scene at the wedding reception is undoubtedly the bride's letter.

The scene where the bride reads a letter of gratitude to her parents who have raised her from birth until now pulls everyone in the venue into a swirl of emotion.

Many people may find themselves shedding tears when they hear the "bride's letter," right?

What Are the Points to Consider When Reading the "Bride's Letter"?

The bride's letter is considered one of the most touching scenes of the wedding.

When reading the bride's letter, being mindful of a few points will make the moment even more wonderful: making it easier for parents and guests to listen, and ensuring you look great in the photos that will last a lifetime.

So, what are those points? Let's introduce them＊

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[Basics] How to Read the Bride's Letter＊

First, let's introduce how to read the bride's letter＊

There are two methods for reading the bride's letter:

One is having the groom hold the microphone while the bride reads.

The other is using a stand microphone to read＊

When having the groom hold the microphone, it's customary for him to hold it in his right hand while gently wrapping his left arm around the bride's waist＊

This gives a sense of "a reliable husband who will always support her" from the guest's perspective, and the bride also feels at ease knowing he is quietly watching over her, making this a popular way to read it ♡

On the other hand, using a stand microphone allows for a fixed and stable microphone position, so you can read without worrying about the groom's microphone assistance (!!!).

Some experiences shared by brides who had the groom hold the microphone include:

☑ "I was nervous because the groom's face was so close!"

☑ "I couldn't focus because the microphone he was holding kept getting closer and farther away!"

If that worries you, using a stand microphone is recommended◎

Consult with your groom and choose a method that makes it easy to read the bride's letter ♩

Next, let's discuss tips for reading the bride's letter beautifully＊

@s.notredame.wedding

Tips for Reading the Bride's Letter Beautifully ① Read Slowly

The first tip for reading the bride's letter well is to read slowly＊

For brides who are used to speaking in front of a crowd for work, this may not be an issue, but for those who are not accustomed to it, the spotlight can make you speak more quickly.

Even if you don't realize you're speaking too fast, nervousness often causes you to speed up, so consciously try to speak at a slower pace when reading the letter ♩

Speaking too quickly can make it seem like your feelings aren't being conveyed, and it also makes it hard for others to understand, which is not beneficial at all.

Speaking at a pace that feels almost too slow for you is about the right speed.

@tomomi_wedding1210

Tips for Reading the Bride's Letter Beautifully ② Maintain Good Posture

When reading the bride's letter, it's easy to slouch as you look at the letter in your hands.

Since it's hard to notice that you are slouching, many people are surprised to see photos later and think, "I didn't realize I was slouching that much!"

Since the bride's letter tends to lead to looking down and having poor posture, make an effort to straighten up and hold the letter in front of your face as much as possible, looking up while you read to maintain a beautiful appearance◎

Since this is often a time when photos and videos are being taken, it's important to be aware of and maintain a beautiful posture!

@little.h___

Tips for Reading the Bride's Letter Beautifully ③ Look Up and Face Your Parents While Reading

The final tip for reading the bride's letter is to not just keep your eyes on the letter but to occasionally look towards your parents.

The same lesson we learned as children to look the other person in the eye when speaking or listening applies here!

However, when it comes time to read the bride's letter, many brides become focused on not making mistakes in the text and end up not looking at their parents.

Consequently, they might later look at photos and notice things like "Mom had that expression" or "Dad was getting teary..."

If you only look down and keep your eyes on the letter, it turns into mere reading or recitation.

To effectively convey your feelings of gratitude and messages, look up and make eye contact with your parents while reading the letter, creating a true sense of communication and making your feelings of gratitude even stronger♡

Read the Bride's Letter Well and Convey Your Feelings of Gratitude＊

We've shared the stance and points for reading the bride's letter during the wedding reception＊

On the actual wedding day, when the bride reads the letter, it's indeed nerve-wracking, and it’s easy to forget the "points to keep in mind" you’ve practiced!

However, the bride's letter is the climax of the wedding ceremony. It is such an exciting scene that some people attend the wedding just to enjoy that moment.

@mmmmx326

To meet the expectations of such guests and also to express gratitude to your parents,

and to avoid regrets about your appearance in photos later on,

☑ Don't look down

☑ Correct your posture

☑ Make eye contact

☑ Don't speak too quickly

Keep these tips firmly in mind, and even if you feel like you’re about to cry, stay focused and navigate this precious event!

To prepare for this, practicing reading the bride's letter at home is also recommended. Getting your groom to listen and provide feedback can help you become more comfortable, allowing you to read beautifully on the big day◎

With a poised and beautiful appearance, convey your feelings of gratitude to your parents♡

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