"Peco & Ryucheru Embrace American Retro Style: A Review of Their Wedding Dress Code!"
2017.09.28 published
Let's Review the "Dress Code" for Weddings*
At weddings, sometimes guests are asked to follow a "dress code" that specifies part of their attire♩
While dress codes are common at weddings overseas, they are still relatively rare in Japan.
However, after seeing the super cute wedding of Peko and Ryucheru, who established a dress code, many may have thought, "I want to imitate that too!"
The dress code for Peko and Ryucheru's wedding was "American Retro Style"♡
They set the dress code inspired by their favorite 1960s fashion*
Because of this, female guests wore colorful, slightly longer mid-length dresses, while male guests coordinated in colorful suits, making for a very vibrant atmosphere♡
This time, we will introduce dress codes for weddings* Whether you know about them or not, let's review dress codes together♩
What Exactly is a Dress Code?
First, let's introduce what a dress code is*
A dress code refers to specific guidelines or rules regarding attire that are established for guests (customers) at formal events, ceremonies, parties, and restaurants in hotels.
It is a manner of dressing suited to the atmosphere of the venue, the guest demographics, and the time and place of the event.
Dress codes include formal and semi-formal attire, as well as "casual attire" and "no necktie," among others.
Sometimes, a dress code is set to indicate that "it’s a casual and relaxed gathering"*
Dress codes contribute to creating a sense of unity in the venue and help guests avoid confusion about what to wear◎
What Should You Be Careful About When Requesting a Dress Code for Your Wedding?
While dress codes are familiar overseas, it's still quite rare to establish one for weddings in Japan. However, it's perfectly fine to specify a dress code for a Japanese wedding too♡
Still, guests may not be used to dress codes. Many may find it confusing if they suddenly hear "The dress code is XX"…!
Therefore, here are some points to consider when specifying a dress code for your wedding♩
Points to Keep in Mind When Specifying a Dress Code ① Make It Easy to Understand
The first point when specifying a dress code is to keep it simple and clear!
For example, the dress code "American Retro Style" set by Peko and Ryucheru is very cute but may not be familiar to the general public.
Peko and Ryucheru's guests are mostly from the fashion world, and many already love American retro style, so there’s no issue for them. However, for those who are not accustomed to it, it can be a high hurdle: "What is that?!"
Therefore, when specifying a dress code, it’s best to use something clear like "Please wear something blue" or "Please wear denim."
Using colors or materials that are easy to understand is highly recommended◎
Points to Keep in Mind When Specifying a Dress Code ② Don't Make It Mandatory
It's also important not to make the dress code mandatory.
If you enforce a dress code in Japan, where guests might not be accustomed to them, they may feel frustrated, thinking, "I have to spend time and money to attend a wedding, and now I have to follow a dress code too?!”
So, when specifying a dress code, instead of saying, "Please wear something blue," use something like, "I’d appreciate it if you could wear something blue*" to avoid sounding too strict◎
Points to Keep in Mind When Specifying a Dress Code ③ Be Careful with Elder Guests
One important point when asking elder guests to follow the dress code is to be cautious.
Many brides in their 20s and 30s may be familiar with dress codes and look forward to them, but older guests may struggle to understand the concept…!
Thus, when requesting a dress code, it's crucial to be careful with more formal elderly guests.
Some brides choose to request dress codes only for younger friends at second parties or receptions without elder guests♩
Points to Keep in Mind When Specifying a Dress Code ④ Provide Examples
Finally, when requesting a dress code, it’s very helpful to provide example outfits along with your invitation!
When you say "something blue" or "denim," many may wonder what kind of outfit they should wear.
So, including sample outfits saying "It would be lovely if you could come dressed like this♡" in your invitation is very considerate♩