"Tips for Crafting the Perfect Groom's Speech: Ideas to Make It Shine at the End!"

2022.06.15 published

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The Conclusion of the Reception is "Groom's Speech"＊

When it comes to concluding the reception, it's the groom's speech＊

The groom expresses his gratitude to the guests, in a way, it's the culmination of the reception ♡

I want him to deliver it perfectly and bring the reception to a close♩

@hire_wedding

However, the groom's speech can be a source of anxiety for the bride.

It's not that she doesn't trust him, but she may worry, "Is he really thinking it through?" or "Will it end up being a generic, template-like speech?" and so on…

Therefore, this time, we will introduce a "cheat sheet" of topics he should cover in the groom's speech♩

Let's show him this article and have him think about what he will say＊

@momo.wd.1106

① To the Guests

☑ Gratitude (We are here today thanks to all of you)

☑ Personal Messages (Thank you to my hometown friends and to the X family and Y family for coming all the way here)

☑ About the Day (I will never forget the words of my boss, Mr. X, who gave the toast) (Thank you to my friends from the high school soccer team for the amusing performance)

To the Staff (Thank you for your efforts to make our ceremony special)

② To My Parents

☑ Childhood Stories (I used to be naughty and would get called to school for mischief, and you always apologized for me)

☑ Memorable Moments (You gave me advice when I was struggling with my job search)

☑ Things I Respect (I learned from my father who cherishes my mother, and I will cherish Y forever)

☑ Things to Be Careful About (Mom tends to overdo things, so now that her needy son is moving out, please take time to relax)

☑ About the Decision to Marry (Thank you for crying tears of joy when I said I was getting married)

☑ Gratitude to the Bride's Parents (Thank you for allowing me to marry Y)

③ To the Bride

☑ Past Together (I feel glad that we've been able to get along without fighting since we met)

☑ Leading Up to the Wedding (I left most of the wedding planning to you; thank you for organizing such a wonderful ceremony)

☑ About the Future (Let’s build a family filled with laughter)

☑ What I Love About You (I love your cooking, and I look forward to enjoying many delicious meals from you)

During this time, presenting a bouquet or re-proposing can also be wonderful ♡

④ Future Aspirations

☑ The Kind of Family I Want to Build (I will create a bright and lively family)

☑ Promises (If we ever have conflicting opinions, I will always be the one to yield)

[How to Improve Speech Skills] Tips for the Groom's Speech?

☑ Speak clearly and confidently

☑ It's okay to look at notes!

☑ Avoid negative phrasing or expressions (including inappropriate jokes!)

☑ Include original elements, not just templates

☑ When speaking to parents or in-laws, face them (make eye contact)

☑ Not too long, not too short (around 2 to 4 minutes is best)

☑ Say "Thank you very much for today" without looking at notes, and with a loud, warm voice

☑ Make the final bow a little longer

@hire_wedding

Let’s Conclude the Reception with a Wonderful Speech♩

We've introduced topics he'd like to cover in the groom's speech＊

Groom's speeches often end up being generic templates found online. To create a memorable speech that resonates with the guests, it's essential to convey genuine feelings of gratitude through original wording ◎

Even grooms who typically perform well might not have time to think things through on the actual day.

Please keep in mind what to say in advance, making sure your gratitude comes across clearly in your speech＊

➡ What the Groom Should Say in His Speech: "I’m happy to be married and I love my bride."

➡ For more information about the groom's speech, click here＊