Preparation is Key! Tips for Successfully Implementing the Heartwarming "Children's Bouquet" Moment at Your Reception.

I want to ask for a performance of a children's bouquet from the little guests!

The performance of "children's bouquet," where small children present a bouquet to the bride and groom to say congratulations at a wedding, is a very cute and heartwarming moment♡

Seeing a child walking around with a big bouquet brings smiles to everyone watching＊

It's common for relatives' children, close friends' kids, or if the bride is a kindergarten teacher, to ask all the kindergarten kids to join in.

While the presentation of bouquets by children is a very cute performance, it can also lead to a series of unexpected mishaps.

For instance, if a child gets upset or starts crying just before the bouquet presentation, it's possible that the wedding performance might have to be changed.

I think the bride, groom, and other guests will watch with warm eyes saying, "It's just a child...", but you want it to be as successful as possible!

So this time, we will introduce some precautions for when children present a bouquet ♩

Tips for a successful children's bouquet ① Get the child excited

First and foremost, it's important to talk to the child about the bouquet presentation performance before the wedding to get them excited!

Children generally don't understand what kind of event a wedding is.

So, it's crucial to explain to them, "This is what a wedding is like!" and get them looking forward to it.

If you have photos or videos from your own wedding, showing them can help them visualize it better◎

Once the child understands what a wedding is, clearly convey when, where, and what they will be doing by saying, "Can you give flowers to big brother/sister 〇〇 at the wedding?"

If they can understand through videos, it might be a good idea to have them watch this video too ♩

Tips for a successful children's bouquet ② Make them able to say "Congratulations"

At weddings, it's not just about giving the bouquet, but also about saying words of celebration.

Before or after presenting the bouquet, the emcee will often come and say, “Can you say congratulations?” while handing over the microphone.

To prevent the child from becoming confused or nervous during those moments, it's recommended to practice saying "Congratulations!"

Divide roles among the father, the bride and groom, and the emcee to practice handing over the bouquet and saying congratulations ♩

Tips for a successful children's bouquet ③ Check the schedule

It's also important to ask the bride and groom about the timing of the bouquet presentation and the schedule leading up to it◎

Especially if the bouquet is to be presented by a child under elementary school age, there might be times when they cry or fuss before the performance.

So, it may be necessary to adjust their nap schedule to ensure they can stay awake during the bouquet presentation time.

Confirming with the bride and groom about what time it will be is reassuring.

Also, since children are likely to get bored later in the ceremony, if possible, having the presentation during the first half might be better.

Tips for a successful children's bouquet ④ Think of ways to handle crying

Preparation in advance greatly increases the likelihood of success on the day.

However, of course, children may also get upset in unfamiliar places on the big day.

In such cases, it’s reassuring to think of strategies for handling situations when they cry◎

If there are multiple children and one starts to fuss, it's recommended to let them stay seated instead of forcing them to go forward.

Bringing them forward might cause even more stimulation, leading to more crying, so it’s best to ask the other children to go instead.

Also, if a child fusses just before going on stage and there’s no one to replace them, a parent should accompany them ♩

【Preparation is Key!】Let's make the children's bouquet a success ◎

We have introduced the precautions and tips for performing the children's bouquet at weddings.

The presentation of a bouquet at a wedding is a big event not just for the bride and groom, but also for the father, mother, and child!

Let’s make thorough preparations in advance to prepare for the wedding ♩