Disappointing Wedding Gifts: A Compilation of Unwanted Favors That Fail to Impress

2017.12.11 published

What Should We Choose for the Wedding Favors...!

It's not an exaggeration to say that most newlyweds struggle with choosing wedding favors.

While they can pick whatever they like for the venue and dresses, the wedding favors and sweets will be given to the guests. It's important to choose items that will make the guests happy and that they will enjoy.

Although it's understood that there is no wedding favor that can satisfy every guest of different ages and genders, we still want to select items that are least likely to disappoint.

This time, we will introduce some typical wedding favors that have gathered opinions on social media and the internet stating they were "not appreciated." Use these as a reference when selecting your wedding favors＊

Wedding Favor That Wasn't Appreciated #1: Too Unique Tableware

Those who have attended weddings many times might have experienced receiving quirky, brightly colored dishes or glasses that they think, "I would never buy this for myself..."

From the bride's perspective, there is a desire not to have common wedding favors, which often leads to the selection of unique and rare tableware, but from the guest's point of view, classic and simple designs are often more appreciated.

It would be good to keep in mind if the design looks appropriate in their home or if it’s something they would like to use daily while making a choice＊

Wedding Favor That Wasn't Appreciated #2: A Single Plate

A larger plate provided as a single item also doesn't seem to receive good reviews. For guests who often cook for family, an upscale large plate with just one piece has limited opportunities for use.

It could be disappointing to think, "Did they choose just one to stay within budget?"

It’s generally better to choose sets of 2 to 4 pieces for plates or glasses.

Wedding Favor That Wasn't Appreciated #3: Overly Common Tableware

Guests from the around 30s, who have attended multiple weddings, expressed concerns that "overly common tableware is too repetitive."

Popular brands like Tiffany, Le Creuset, and Wedgwood have limited options in the price range of a few thousand yen suitable for wedding favors, which can lead to situations like, "I received this before..."

While using practical flat plates might not raise any issues regardless of repetition, it seems that having multiple mugs or cocottes can turn into an overabundance.

For newlyweds already in the wedding rush age group, it might be safer to avoid overly common tableware…?

Wedding Favor That Wasn't Appreciated #4: Personalized Items with Names/Photos

Items featuring the couple's names or photos are also cited as examples of wedding favors that weren’t appreciated. The sentiment of celebrating the couple’s marriage is genuine, but the question of wanting to use their branded items is different.

There are some rather harsh comments, such as "I wish you would spare me because it's hard to throw away," and "Do they think they’re some kind of idol (I don’t even want idols),” showing that many guests feel conflicted about such items.

While it’s fine to have small decorations for the favors, it's best to avoid putting names and photos directly on the main items.

Wedding Favor That Wasn't Appreciated #5: Items That Are Too Heavy

Items like heavy pots, vases, or bulk cutlery sets can also be problematic. For guests traveling from afar, such as flying or taking the Shinkansen, heavy and bulky favor bags can be viewed negatively.

This is especially tough for women wearing high heels, making it even more challenging. If the venue is far from the station, it's better to avoid heavy items.

If you must gift something heavy, using a "favor delivery service" that sends the items to the guests' homes is recommended.＊

Wedding Favor That Wasn't Appreciated #6: Character Merchandise

Items featuring characters tend to elicit mixed opinions. Even if the character isn't disliked, some feel resistant to using character items, and this trend seems to increase with age.

If the wedding theme is based on a popular character, it may be tempting to choose items related to that character as wedding favors. However, it's wise to pause and reconsider. If necessary, opt for designs that are simple and mature, avoiding overt character representation.

Wedding Favor That Wasn't Appreciated #7: Low-Tier Catalog Gifts

Catalog gifts offer a high level of satisfaction due to the ability to choose preferred items. However, there are voices expressing dissatisfaction, stating that "when the tier is low, there’s nothing desirable to choose."

Particularly, those receiving catalog gifts priced under three thousand yen seem to have the most complaints.

If you choose catalog gifts, it seems better to select gifts with a respectable range or those featuring well-known brands.

Choose Wedding Favors from the Guest's Perspective＊

We shared some disappointing wedding favors that guests might think are "not too great."

Because the selection is made with heartfelt intent, it's important to choose items that will delight the guests. Please prioritize the guests' perspective when selecting wedding favors＊

You can also refer to the articles on wedding favors at marry♩

➡︎ Check out the list of wedding favor articles here