"Making Him Shine: A Compilation of Groom-Centric Wedding Ceremony Ideas That Are Easy for Grooms to Approve*"

2017.12.23 published

I Want the Groom to Stand Out at the Wedding!

I think there are quite a few brides who are considering, "I want him to stand out at the wedding!"＊

It’s often said that the bride is the star of the wedding, but the ceremony is a place where both the bride and groom are the stars. It makes sense to want him to shine too!♡

@1224.a.wd

However, it's common to hear stories of grooms who are shy or not very active about the wedding rejecting suggestions like "How about this performance?"

So this time, I will introduce five "performances that will surely make the groom the star" that the groom is likely to agree to and want to do!♡

Please consider suggesting these to him♩

Wedding Performance Idea #1: Jacket Ceremony

The first performance I’d like to introduce is the Jacket Ceremony＊

The Jacket Ceremony is a performance where the groom has his father help him put on a tuxedo before the ceremony♡

Just as the bride has her mother do the veil down for “the final touches”, the groom receives his final touches from his father.

@beautifulbell22

Many grooms might be shy about speaking or doing something in front of everyone, but they might be fine with just having their father help them with the jacket＊

This father-son display, while a little embarrassing, will surely become a great memory for both the groom and his father♡

➡Click here for more details about the Jacket Ceremony＊

Wedding Performance Idea #2: Groom's Letter

Next, let’s talk about the groom's letter, which is read at the end of the reception.

While the bride's letter is a classic performance, a letter from the groom is quite rare.

The bride can express her gratitude to her parents through her letter, but the groom only conveys his thanks to the guests in his speech.

Therefore, I recommend that the groom also read a letter of thanks to his parents＊

This is a great opportunity for the groom to express his gratitude. If the bride suggests it, he may agree even if he's shy♡

➡Click here for more details about the Groom's Letter＊

Wedding Performance Idea #3: Beer Serving

The Beer Serving is a performance where the groom serves beer to guests during the table rounds after changing outfits＊

Grooms who have many guests who enjoy alcohol will likely be happy to do this♩

@mr_____.wed

Don't forget to hand out snacks while the bride is at it◎

➡Click here for more details about Beer Serving＊

Wedding Performance Idea #4: Welcome Speech

At the beginning of the reception or garden party, a welcome speech from the groom is a great way to kick things off＊

Having a few words from the groom can create a homey and original feeling for the start of the party♩

Even if he says, “I’m not good at speaking in front of people…!”, let’s encourage him to give it a try here♡

@nagisa_marry

Recently, it seems that it's becoming more common for brides to also give a welcome speech＊

If you say, "I will speak too, so let’s do it together!" it might motivate even the most reluctant groom to participate♡

➡Click here for more details about the Welcome Speech＊

Wedding Performance Idea #5: Gift Toss

After the bride throws her bouquet, the groom can perform a gift toss＊

Since this performance is done as part of the bouquet toss flow, it might be the easiest for the groom to agree to◎

Anything can be tossed. A popular choice is broccoli, which resembles a bouquet and symbolizes “prosperity in children”!

You can also toss cushions and gift champagne to those who catch them,

@min_no_arukikata

or pack socks like a bouquet for a “sock bouquet”, which is also popular♩

➡Click here for more details about the Groom's Bouquet Toss＊

The Wedding is Also the Groom’s Stage! Let’s Have Wonderful Performances♡

I have introduced five wedding performances that the groom might agree to do＊

Even grooms who are not comfortable standing in front of people will find it easier to engage in performances that focus on expressing gratitude to their parents and guests as introduced here♩

Let’s allow the groom to have wonderful performances and enliven the wedding♡

@kagewedding