Creating His Moment: 11 Performance Ideas to Spotlight the Groom

2018.01.05 published

Is the Bride the "Star" of the Wedding?

A wedding is a celebration of the couple's union. Naturally, the main characters are the bride and groom. However, there is an image in society that "weddings are for women."

Even the groom might, somewhere in his heart, think "the main star is her."

It's true that time spent choosing outfits, hair and makeup, bouquet tosses, and the bride's letter tends to put the spotlight on the bride.

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But surely, the bride wants him to shine, show off his handsome appearance to everyone, and above all, have fun and create wonderful memories! That's the bride's true feelings.

So, in this article, we have gathered 11 wedding and reception ideas where "the groom is the star."

Believe it or not, there are quite a few moments when the spotlight is on the groom!♡

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Let's take a look at what kind of presentations there are right away.*

Groom-Centric Wedding & Reception Idea 1: Jacket Ceremony

First, let's introduce a presentation during the ceremony: the "Jacket Ceremony," which corresponds to the bride's "veil down!"

The Jacket Ceremony is a moment when the groom is helped by his father to put on the tuxedo jacket during the ceremony. The groom and his father enter together and before walking down the aisle, the father helps the groom with his jacket.

It’s wonderful that the groom has his own “final preparation” moment. After putting on the jacket, it's also nice if his mother pins on his boutonniere.

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Groom-Centric Wedding & Reception Idea 2: Dozen Roses Ceremony

Next up is the Dozen Roses Ceremony, a traditional European performance. The groom enters the chapel and receives 12 roses, one at a time, from the guests, which he then hands over to the bride who enters afterward.

The moment he kneels down to present the bouquet of roses looks just like a proposal. It's a romantic gesture that makes the groom the star.

You can find detailed steps on how to perform the Dozen Roses Ceremony in this article.

➡Meaning and Steps of the Dozen Roses Ceremony: Propose with the Bouquets Received from 12 Guests♡

Groom-Centric Wedding & Reception Idea 3: Broccoli Toss

Next is the Broccoli Toss, which corresponds to the bride's bouquet toss.

A bouquet toss is when the bride throws her bouquet to unmarried female guests, while the Broccoli Toss is when the groom throws broccoli to male guests.

Since broccoli symbolizes "prosperity," it's gaining popularity overseas.

A unique twist on this is having the guest who catches the broccoli receive mayonnaise on the spot to eat it… it might even be more exciting than the bouquet toss!♡

Groom-Centric Wedding & Reception Idea 4: XX Pulls

Recently, more brides are opting for bouquet pulls instead of bouquet tosses. In such cases, it's recommended for the groom to do an "XX Pulls" as well.

Anything can fill in the blank! Broccoli is fine, or it could be something that reflects the groom's hobbies. Choose items that will engage the guests.

This groom, for example, organized a Mask Pulls with Tiger Mask tied to the winning ribbon. The lucky guests donned the masks for a commemorative photo with the groom!

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Groom-Centric Wedding & Reception Idea 5: Welcome Speech

From here on, we will share scenes where the groom gets the spotlight during the reception.

The first highlight is the welcome speech. He expresses his gratitude to the guests for coming, reports that the ceremony has been successfully completed, and concludes with comments about the reception.*

It’s an important first presentation of the reception. It’s a scene where we want him to nail it dramatically!♡ You can find examples and tips for welcome speeches in the article below, so be sure to share it with him.

➡List of Welcome Speech Articles

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Groom-Centric Wedding & Reception Idea 6: Groom's Exit

Next, we will introduce the groom’s exit scene. It can be exciting if friends hoist him on their shoulders or carry him like a portable shrine; getting creative with the exit method brings a lot of fun.*

If you ask family or mentors to escort the groom, have them share a short memory or episode about him during the announcement.*

It will surely become a wonderful scene that reveals the groom's true self.

Groom-Centric Wedding & Reception Idea 7: Best Color Guessing Quiz

After the groom's exit, a fun activity to incorporate is the "Best Color Guessing Quiz!" instead of a dress color guessing quiz.

Just like guessing the color of the bride's dress, have the guests guess the color of the groom's vest (or tuxedo) instead!♡

If the bride and groom enter separately, it will enhance each of their visibility!*

Groom-Centric Wedding & Reception Idea 8: Participation in Performances

It seems that many grooms also participate in performances!♡ You might be worried that "he doesn’t have many chances to shine," but often, he becomes the star during the performances! Many times they practice secretly without the bride's knowledge, so she might be surprised on the day of!

If you catch him sneaking around during wedding preparations, it might be best to turn a blind eye!♡

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Groom-Centric Wedding & Reception Idea 9: Surprise for the Bride

As the reception comes to a close, the groom gets a big opportunity for a surprise for the bride.

☑ Surprise public proposal

☑ Message movie

☑ Reading of a letter

☑ Singing or performance gift

And more, there are various options!♡ It's a moment when everyone in the venue sends heartfelt cheers to the groom.

Surprises are not something to push on him, so it's up to the groom's discretion, but it might not hurt to casually mention that "it's a dream to be surprised at the reception!" beforehand.*

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Groom-Centric Wedding & Reception Idea 10: Groom's Letter

The groom's letter, in contrast to the bride's letter, is a presentation that is well-received by his family and guests.

There are likely few men who can express their feelings sincerely to their parents in everyday life. The reception is a great opportunity for him to express gratitude to his family.

If it feels odd to lead from the groom's letter to the bride's letter, it’s recommended to read it at the groom's exit time instead.*

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Groom-Centric Wedding & Reception Idea 11: Thank You Speech

The groom’s thank you speech at the end of the reception is also a crucial moment for him.

He will convey messages to the guests, parents, and the bride, as well as share his ambitions for the future.

There might be tear-filled moments where he can hardly continue, but those moments will undoubtedly deepen the guests’ emotions.*

For content ideas and tips on delivering a great groom's thank you speech, check out the article below!

➡List of Groom's Thank You Speech Articles

Because It's a Wedding for Both of Us! ♡

So, how was it? We introduced wedding and reception presentations where the groom gets the spotlight.

In a wedding, the couple are both the stars. During wedding preparations and on the day itself, we want both of you to share in the joy!*

By actively suggesting opportunities for him to shine, you can enhance his enthusiasm for the wedding!♡

Together, let's create a wonderful wedding!♩

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