Tips for Grooms: Behaviors and Gestures to Mind for a Stylish Wedding Ceremony and Reception! ♡

2019.06.13 published

I Want You to See the Cool and Kind Groom ♡

On the wedding day, many relatives, friends, and colleagues of the bride are likely to be seeing the groom for the first time.＊

Therefore, it would be wonderful to hear everyone compliment him saying, "What a wonderful husband!" ♡

In this article, I will introduce you to the [groom’s correct gentlemanly behavior] during the ceremony and reception, which will highlight his coolness even more.＊

@tonko_wedding_miavia

Share this with him right away so he can master it by the big day! ♩

[Groom's Entrance] Stand Tall and Walk Refreshingly ＊

First, let’s talk about the moment the groom enters the ceremony.＊

This scene often brings laughter from the guests as they see him looking nervous, which is different from his usual self...

He should stand tall with his back straight, face looking straight ahead, and walk a little briskly, looking cool and refreshing! ♡

[Vows] Speak Clearly and Loudly ♩

During a church ceremony, he will respond with “Yes, I do” to the pastor’s question, and in a self-planned ceremony, he will declare the vows they created together.＊

Mumbling in a quiet voice is not cool; if he wants to create a calm and reassuring atmosphere, it’s important to say, “Yes. I do.” slowly and at just the right volume.

If he says, “Yes! I do!” in a loud and energetic tone, it may come across as slightly youthful, so be cautious.

Practicing this a few times at home is recommended! ♩

@tonko_wedding_miavia

[The Kiss of Vows] Kiss Boldly and Smile After ♡

The vow kiss is probably the most nerve-wracking moment during the ceremony.＊ While it might feel embarrassing, it’s something that only happens once in a lifetime!

Encourage him to kiss confidently with a proud face and attitude! ♩

After the kiss, it’s also cute to look at each other and share a little laugh saying, “That was embarrassing.” ♡

@meme0206

[Entrance and Exit] Never Forget to Escort!

Whether it’s during the ceremony exit or the reception entrance, the groom must always remember to escort the bride, even when walking down the venue hall behind the scenes.＊

This is comforting for the bride, who may be wearing an unfamiliar dress, and it looks very gentlemanly to everyone around! ♡

Bend your arm so the bride can easily hold on, and keep your hand in a fist. ♩

By the way, it’s best to adapt how to escort her when going down stairs, such as taking the bride’s hand. ♡

@shococo.wd

[Groom's Speech] Speak Frankly with a Smile ♩

One of the groom’s most significant moments at the reception is the welcome speech.＊

Here, instead of sticking to clichés and formulaic phrases, he should mix in stories about the couple and express gratitude to the guests, speaking in a friendly manner with a smile!

Together, let’s come up with a draft to ease the atmosphere, or even plan to hold cue cards for a fun effect!

[Groom's Turn to Step Away] Be Kind and Warm ♡

If the bride steps away first, it will be the groom's turn to step away.＊

While it might feel a bit embarrassing to be as friendly as the women, holding hands or linking arms with siblings, mothers, or grandparents can truly impress the guests who will think, “He is a kind and family-oriented person.” ♡

[Entertainment, Toasts, and Socializing] Look at Others and Express Gratitude ♩

When guests are speaking during entertainment, toasts, or socializing, it's crucial for him to look at them attentively and express gratitude at the end.＊

On the wedding day, he might be too busy and forget to say, "Thank you," but he should strive to be cordial and courteous to everyone around. ♩

[Bride's Letter] Support with Big Hands ♡

During the bride’s letter reading, it’s the groom's role to hold the microphone near the bride’s mouth as she reads.＊

A gentlemanly and stylish groom will definitely have his arm around the bride’s waist! ♩

It’s beautiful to see a glimpse of a supportive and protective relationship. ♡

If the bride is anxious, it may be a good idea to have him promise, “Please take care of my hand during the letter part.”＊

If You Master This, You’ll Be the Perfect Groom! ♡

The bride and groom will always be the center of attention, no matter the moment or what they are doing.＊

The groom should embody the gentlemanly and kind behavior introduced here,

so he can escort flawlessly on the big day! ♡

@mai_wedding0312