Be Cautious with Your Performance: What Types of Entertainment Should You Avoid for a Broader Audience?

2019.06.26 published

Spot On: What Are Some Not-So-Funny Performances?

Fun Performances by Guests That Liven Up the Reception

The content of the performance is generally left to the guests, and basically, anything goes, whether it be dance, song, video, comedy, or a play.

However, it's crucial to adhere to common sense and manners.

It's best to perform in a way that the newlyweds don't have to worry about "Is this going to be okay?"

The ideal performance should be one that doesn't hurt any of the guests present and leaves everyone thinking, "That was fun to watch!"

@nagisa_marry

In this article,

we will specifically introduce performances that are generally considered

not very funny...

and maybe a bit awkward to respond to...

For those who are about to perform, this is something to keep in mind.

1. Performances That Are Too Much Inside Jokes

Performances that rely too heavily on inside jokes are a classic in the list of "NG Performances."

Inside jokes might include trends from high school or university, impressions of peers (or teachers), or the school anthem.

Or perhaps traditional calls from a company or club.

While those involved might think, "This is a must-include! It's still hilarious,"

for everyone else, it can lead to confusion, creating a temperature difference in the venue.

A light touch might allow those unfamiliar with the inside joke to think, "Oh, they were close,"

but the longer the performance focuses on inside jokes, the more dangerous it becomes...!

It might even place a burden on the newlyweds, so it’s best to limit those inside jokes to a minimum.

@nagisa_marry

2. Performances with Low Quality in Singing or Dancing

Singing or dancing performances are quite popular, but if the quality is too low, it can be problematic.

For instance, in a dance, there might be one very skilled performer,

but if the others have forgotten the choreography and are dancing to a different rhythm, it makes it hard for the audience to comment...

You might think, "Did they not want to practice (perform)?"

With singing, if someone is extremely tone-deaf, it might turn into a "Giant's Recital"!

When doing performances involving singing or dancing, ensure the quality is up to par, or lower the difficulty to adjust.

@haruno45

3. Performances That Are Just Too Long

It’s common to see performances that are intended to last five minutes but end up going on for ten or fifteen minutes in weddings.

No matter how good a performance is, if it goes too long, boredom will inevitably set in.

If it causes the reception to run over time, the newlyweds would feel bad about having to pay for extra hours...

Even if there are plenty of things you want to express or say through the performance, it’s important to stick to the allotted time; that’s adult etiquette.

@haruno45

4. Performances That Involve Taking Off Clothes

Performing with the intention of stripping off clothing and becoming bare-chested is one of those performances best avoided.

While it might temporarily excite the crowd, you don’t know how people actually feel deep down... (especially relatives or older attendees!)

It’s unlikely anyone would think stripping is a good impression,

so no matter how high the energy might be, it's best to refrain from disrobing at a wedding.

@nagisa_marry

5. Overlapping Performances from Guests

Sometimes, it happens that the performances from guests on the groom’s side and the bride’s side overlap...!

While the newlyweds might not initially inquire in detail about the content,

it would be wise for them to ask the friends they've requested performances from, "What genre are you planning?" to have some understanding.

Be Careful with Performances That Might Not Appeal to Everyone!

Wedding reception performances should be activities where everyone in attendance can enjoy themselves while observing customary manners.

During the preparation stages, it’s best to objectively consider, "Is this okay?" and "Will anyone feel uncomfortable?"

Here’s to hoping the wedding is a happy occasion for both the newlyweds and guests!