Things to Check Before Signing a Contract! That Popular Wedding Performance Might Be a "No-Go" Depending on the Venue!

2018.03.21 published

Exciting Ideas for Wedding Productions ♡

To all the brides-to-be who are starting their wedding preparations＊

Do you have a rough idea of what kind of performances you want to have at the ceremony and reception?

In reality, you will start deciding on the progress of the ceremony and reception after the venue meetings begin, usually about four months before the event.

Many of you are probably just gathering information right now, thinking, "I like this" and "I like that," without making any specific decisions yet!

There are various ideas for wedding performances, ranging from traditional to modern trending ones, which can be quite overwhelming. ♡

Be Careful! Some Venues Have Prohibited Performances…!?

However, did you know that some venues actually have "prohibited" performances?

Popular and standard performances you often see in reports from previous brides may not be allowed at your venue. It can be quite a pitfall when you think, "This should be fine" only to hear, "We can't do that here."

In this article, we'll introduce standard wedding performances that are known to be prohibited at certain venues＊

If you have a specific performance in mind that you absolutely want to include, it's recommended to ask during your venue tour.

Are There Wedding Venues with Prohibited Performances!? Caution on Standard Performances ① First Meet

The first one to introduce is the emotional performance called First Meet, which takes place on the morning of the wedding.

Many of you might be considering revealing your wedding dress to your groom for the first time during the First Meet. It's a classic performance that previous brides unanimously say, "I'm so glad we did it."

@sk_wedding.2017

In the First Meet, the bride and groom prepare in separate locations, and they have their first encounter at the chapel, garden, or bridal room.

However, some venues have the bride and groom in the same preparation room.

Since they will be getting dressed in the same room, they can see each other during the changing process.

As a result, the First Meet cannot take place in such venues.

Some brides have even been shocked to find out that their preparation room was shared just before the wedding.

It’s not common to check the bridal room during venue tours, so if you're curious, it's best to ask＊

Are There Wedding Venues with Prohibited Performances!? Caution on Standard Performances ② Candle Relay

The Candle Relay involves guests lighting candles one after another. As the candles are passed, the lights increase, creating a dramatic atmosphere in the venue—a popular performance. ♡

However, some wedding venues prohibit the use of open flames. In such venues, LED light candles are used instead, meaning that the traditional candle relay performance cannot be executed.

Brides who wish to incorporate a magical candle relay into their reception should be cautious.

@yuki_txs

Are There Wedding Venues with Prohibited Performances!? Caution on Standard Performances ③ Outdoor Dessert Buffet

An outdoor dessert buffet held in an open garden or poolside is a well-reviewed performance among guests. ♡

Just looking at the array of colorful desserts lined up outside is thrilling.

Some brides may wish to enjoy a dessert buffet outdoors while having fun with their guests during the latter part of the reception. ♡

@eri_wedding0512

However, some venues prohibit outdoor dessert buffets for hygiene reasons.

If you assumed you could move to the garden, you might be in for a shock.

Even if there is a garden or courtyard, it doesn’t guarantee an outdoor dessert buffet, so it’s best to confirm just in case.

@k_wedding_k

Are There Wedding Venues with Prohibited Performances!? Caution on Standard Performances ④ Fruit Liquor Making

Making fruit liquor, a popular and unique performance during tabletop rounds, involves the bride and groom collecting fruits from guests and pouring their preferred alcohol, such as white liquor or Smirnoff, at the end.

Many brides incorporate this standard performance, but it might actually violate certain laws…!

There is a liquor tax law in Japan that generally prohibits home brewing of alcohol.

However, as long as you follow the rules regarding alcohol content and permissible ingredients (grains are not allowed), it's accepted as "not subject to tax if enjoyed personally."

The point here is the "enjoyed personally" aspect; if you serve it to guests who aren't family, it could lead to a rule violation.

@y.r_wedding2

It's fine for the bride and groom to take it home and enjoy it, but if you hope to serve the fruit liquor made on-site to guests, there's a high chance your request will be declined.

If you wish to serve guests, it's recommended to make "fruit juice" by mixing it with juice instead of alcohol or adding soda to create a fruit punch as an alternative.＊

Also, some venues may prohibit the making of fruit liquor altogether, so if you're considering making fruit liquor during tabletop rounds, be sure to check!

@hal9000marriage

Are There Wedding Venues with Prohibited Performances!? Caution on Standard Performances ⑤ Confetti Shower

The confetti shower is a popular performance after the ceremony, where glittering confetti bursts from crackers, creating a festive atmosphere. ♡ The photo opportunities are superb, too.

The crackers used for the confetti shower can be prepared affordably, starting from 100 yen, which is another positive aspect. ◎

However, the downside of the confetti shower is that the small paper confetti scatters everywhere, making cleanup quite a task.

@vmikikov

Especially in bad weather, the floor and walls may become damp, potentially causing color transfer.

Therefore, some venues allow flower showers but prohibit confetti showers.

Brides who wish to be celebrated with a confetti shower like overseas should confirm with their venue!

@keiko_marry

To Avoid Later Shock, Be Sure to Confirm!

Weddings feature many wonderful performances considered standard. However, not every venue can accommodate every performance.

It's important to avoid complacency just because "everyone is doing it."

If you saw a performance you want among those introduced this time, be sure to confirm it with your planner!＊

@e_wd212