Is It Worth It? Pros, Cons, and Considerations of Going on a Honeymoon the Day After Your Wedding

2019.05.28 published

I Long For a Honeymoon Starting the Day After the Wedding ♡

In overseas movies and dramas, it’s a common scene for newlyweds to hop into a wedding car right after the ceremony and head off to their honeymoon.

Dressed in a tuxedo and wedding dress, they ride in the car while tin cans clink behind them for good luck, making their way to the airport＊

Many brides might dream of such a wonderful scene and think, "I want to go on a honeymoon right after the wedding or the following day!"

What is it Really Like to Go on a Honeymoon Starting the Next Day?

But realistically, what is it like to go on a honeymoon starting the day after the wedding?

While it sounds fun, the actual preparations might seem quite challenging…!

In this article, we will introduce the advantages and disadvantages of going on a honeymoon right after the wedding or the next day＊

After considering all the merits and demerits, it would be great if you could go at the time that feels best for both of you ♩

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Advantages of Going on a Honeymoon Starting the Day After the Wedding

① You Can Soak in the Afterglow of the Wedding＊

The biggest advantage of going on a honeymoon from the day after the wedding is that you won’t immediately return to everyday life, allowing you to enjoy the afterglow of the wedding in an extraordinary space♡

Spending time alone together in a foreign country while still feeling happy from the wedding is truly blissful.

Instead of saying, "I have to go back to work the day after the wedding…!", you can enjoy your time together in a state of happy contentment♡

② Easier to Take Time Off

If it’s hard to get time off from work, applying for the leave all at once for both the wedding and the honeymoon is a delightful point.

You don't need to break it down into separate days for the wedding and honeymoon, making it potentially easier to get time off from work.

③ You Can Prepare for Both Simultaneously

If you go on a honeymoon from the day after the wedding, you can prepare for both at the same time. It may become quite busy with wedding preparations, but handling both simultaneously can lessen the emotional burden during that period.

④ (If You Don't Like Alcohol) It's Easier to Decline Offers to Drink

Since weddings are celebratory events, many guests will offer you drinks. However, if you’re not fond of alcohol, it can be quite challenging to drink everything offered to you…!

But if you’re going on a honeymoon the next day, the host can announce, "The newlyweds have a honeymoon tomorrow. Mr. Groom, please don’t drink too much!" This way, guests may limit their offers or it’s easier to decline by saying, "Sorry, but we’re heading on our honeymoon tomorrow."

Guests would likely understand, eliminating any unpleasant feelings◎

Disadvantages of Going on a Honeymoon Starting the Day After the Wedding

① Fatigue May Not Have Subsided

The day of the wedding can be exhausting. Running around from morning until the second party and third party can leave even the most energetic feeling drained…!

While you might feel exhilarated during the wedding day or the first half of the honeymoon, fatigue may hit you hard during the latter half of the honeymoon.

It would be a shame to think, "I had the chance for a honeymoon but spent the day exhausted in the hotel…"

② Unable to Interact with Guests

After the wedding, friends often share photos and thoughts about the ceremony through messaging. However, if you’re on a honeymoon abroad, time zone differences or flight schedules can delay communication, and you may not be able to download photos immediately due to your Wi-Fi plan.

Guests will likely know that you are on your honeymoon, so they aren't likely to get upset about any lack of replies, but for those who prefer quick responses, it may cause stress.

③ Unable to Attend After-Parties

In addition to the main wedding, guests may organize second and third parties.

If you leave for your honeymoon the next day (especially if your flight is early), you might have to miss out on the gatherings that guests have kindly arranged for you…!

While it’s uncertain whether such gatherings will take place, it’s good to keep this in mind if your friends tend to organize multiple after-parties.

We have discussed the advantages and disadvantages of going on a honeymoon starting the day after the wedding＊

Now, here are some tips for newlyweds who have decided to go on a trip right after the wedding!

Important Notes for a Honeymoon Starting the Day After the Wedding ♡

① Have the Host Announce to Guests

It is prudent to have the host announce that you will be going on a honeymoon the day after the wedding.

If guests know you will be unavailable from the day after the wedding, they won't feel suspicious if you can’t be reached thereafter.

You’ll also benefit from recommendations for spots to visit from guests who have been to your honeymoon destination♡

② Contact Those Who Sent You Congratulatory Messages

It’s polite to thank those who sent congratulatory messages at the wedding quickly, but if you go on your honeymoon right away, your responses may be delayed. Add a note like, “I’m in my honeymoon and apologize for the delay in thanking you.”

If you send a thank you card, it can be appreciated if you include a souvenir from your honeymoon. Since you might unexpectedly receive congratulatory messages, be sure to add it to your list for souvenirs.

If you have any time before you leave (such as if the wedding reception/after-party ends early or your flight is in the afternoon), it’s also recommended to address these before heading off to your honeymoon.

③ Prepare for the Difficulty of Packing and Cleaning Up

If you go on your honeymoon starting the day after the wedding, you’ll need to prepare for both simultaneously. Besides coordinating with the wedding venue, you’ll also have to communicate with the travel agency, leading to significant busyness.

You’ll find yourself packing for the honeymoon alongside the items for the wedding venue and, once you return, you’ll be busy tidying up after both the wedding and honeymoon.

Make sure to keep in mind that it could be tough and try to avoid arguments with your partner due to the pressure ◎

When to Go on a Honeymoon?

We have introduced the advantages and disadvantages of going on a honeymoon starting the day after the wedding.

Since there are both positive and negative aspects, reviewing them will help ensure you have a pleasant and timely honeymoon experience ♩

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